Dear Family,
We had all three lessons with our investigator with members
present this week and we have taught him all he needs to know for
baptism. All we are doing now is reviewing and answering questions until
his baptism on the 30. The progress of investigators that have a member
present in each lesson is significantly enhanced when compared to those
without members present. Just to have a friend in the church, someone
that lives close by and can answer questions and help in anything and
everything.
We had a somber lesson with a less active couple we have been working with last night. they
have not progressed despite our greatest efforts to help. We fasted on
saturday and sunday to help know what to do and the impression that we
felt was that we needed to cut them loose just like we would with an
investigator that does not progress. I am always hesitant to cut
someone loose but especially less actives. I feel a larger obligation to
help them remember what they once knew and help them feel what they
once felt. but when they show zero progress and very little desire and
you come to a point where your time would be better spent elsewhere then
its time to cut them loose. We have done everying possible to help but
they just don´t seem to want to help themselves.....it was humbling and
somber and they felt bad. We expressed our love for them and told them
that when they decide that they are ready we will be waiting to help
them come back.
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